Girls on these pictures exercise , not starving theirselfs. Girls , work out .. do not be lasy
What a waste of a human life form you turned out to be.A lot of the girls in the pictures could have EDs, and justbecause they may work out doesn't mean they don't starvethemselves, and if they starve themselves it doesn't mean thatthey "don't work out". Go educate yourself before you destroysomebody's life, you ignorant brat.
Your BEAUTIFUL Sociaty is UGLY
This BEAUTIFUL society is perfect, and gorgeous in its on way.
This so called beautiful society is twisted and crooked - a labyrinth of hunger and despair. It's a far cry from perfect.
do you think you could go be a cunt somewhere else please, we don't want your bs.
(@ the first anon)
Person above me, how dare you use such offensive language towards someone! Even though they are wrong, they were obviously trying not to make people starve. Go away. We don't want your crap either.
Its crazy to this that this site is ugly I have just scrolled through all the photos and got so inspired ive alread lost 100lbs from thinspiration just like this they are helping all us women transform our body to become the most vessels since thats what our bodies are vessels containing our beautiful thoughts and dreams. Those who come here hating themselves are not proanna this is the most devoted was of loving your body and maintaining it
You complete d. I personally look at thinspo to inspire myself to lose the weight. It doesn't matter if the work out to get like that.I can still look like them from not eating. losing fat's losing fat. If your gonna insult someone's choices, at least stop being a coward about it.
I work out all the time but That sensation I get in my stomach when my stomach is burning fat is the best feeling and tbh I have it all the time because I don't eat ahha but I'm not lazy
Dont listen to these starving bitches, they think it looks nice? Its fucking disgusting if they end up dying too bad. Why would you hurt your body like this? Lazy, stupid
calling people suffering from anorexia "lazy" and "stupid" makes you just as bad as the people encouraging it. don't be a fucking brat; if you want them to stop, making them feel worthless does not help.
You dumbasses need to learn to spell correctly. Newsflash: you can EXERCISE AND STARVE YOURSELF!
^^^^^ AMEN TO THAT!^^^^^^
I like this site very much, it is super inspiring for me to work harder and harder to my goal.
When you have anorexia, you do work out, you just dont eat because you want to lose weight faster. So you love yourself, after all...your worth i determined by the number on the scale.
ANA IS EVERYTHING. ANA IS THE ONLY THING! IF YOU ARENT ONE OF US THEN LEAVE. WE DONT WANT YOUR OPINION OR YOUR PITY. GET OFF THE SITE. YOU ARENT MAKING US CHANGE OUR MINDS. I WOULD RATHER DIE THAN BE FAT.
I agree with you there hunni. These sites inspire people to lose weight, they inspire people to feel better about themselves and turn there bodies into something they've always wanted. X
I love ana..she is everything for me..i lose 10 kg and i will lose 5 more !!!i'm starving and i'm proud of that
Please don't do this to yourselves, I lost the love of my life to this disease. Don't put you family and friends through the same thing. Know that the world loves you for you and not your waistline.
I am 12, and have recently discovered Pro-Anorexic websites through a Documentary. I am not the slimmest girl, and I find the social side of things at school tough, but I am disgusted at the fact that people do this to themselves. Trust me, you are all beautiful as you are, it isn't natural to want to or to look like celebrities like Victoria Beckham. I am going to bluntly say that you might die if you do things like this. There are people all over the world who care about you- friends, family, teachers and people who have been through or are going through similar experiences. If we all only get one life on Earth, isn't it better to enjoy life with the people we love and care about, than experience the world for a brief period of time. The world is tough and there are raging conflicts because people think it is acceptable in society to bully people for anything and everything- to behave like idiots even though they are adults. Image is not everything... However quality of life and happiness is. Talk to someone about the difficulties you are facing, and you will feel better about yourself. A problem shared is a problem halved...
Even though you are only 12 you are right. We spend so much time trying to be perfect that we don't enjoy our lives anymore.
I am not lazy I work out daily and do yoga... I'm just smart enough not to stuff my face after
Oh, so you think it's SMART to starve yourself? It's delayed suicide! And do you know WHY you do yoga? It's to make you thinner, isn't it? Yoga is about strength and toning. It's an ancient way of opening a path into your soul - and yet you use it to assist you on your quest to weighing 1 pound or whatever? That just makes me SICK.
Why can't you let people live their livesthe way they want to? If people making themselves happy makes you sick then maybe you need help not anorexic girls. Let people live their lives. No ones asked for your scrutiny
Uh, hello? I'm just giving my opinion. I'm a yoga instructor and have no reason to need help. No one asked for your downright horrible comment and yoga is NOT about getting thinner.
No one asked for your opinion either if you don't agree then leave and lets people do as they please. Just coz you instruct yoga doesn't mean everyone has to follow your beliefs let people do yoga for whatever reasons they want
If someone in my yoga class was using yoga to assist an ED I would get the medical authorities involved.
Why do you come on this blog if you are just going to criticize us, we all know that in the long run it isn't really healthy but its our choice and you shouldn't be on here just to criticize someone with an ED for doing yoga.
I'm not! I am here to make it clear to all of you that ana is not the answer!
This is the thing: ana is an EATING DISORDER !!! If you know anything it's that people with an ED can't help it! You don't know what's it like, you don't understand! So don't go on a pro ana website and start going on about how we make you sick. Your the one that makes us sick: the ones who think they know everything but don't, they know nothing.
Fuck off. You don't know me, and you know nothing about me. I am not giving out any info, but I know a lot more that you think.
If you knew about us, you would know that we CANNOT help it. Anorexia is a diagnosed disorder which takes years to overcome. Saying 'you make me sick' isn't gonna do anything but make you look stupid. So please, do what's best for you and get off this website.
watch out or she's gonna call the "medical authorities" lmao
Guys, she's got a frickin point. Ana is a psychological thing, but there are starving people on earth. Get real guys - you are beautiful. And don't tell me I know nothing. I had EDNOS so there.
"If you knew about us, you would know that we CANNOT help it." Ive heard ex-junkies say the same shit before they were clean. It can be beaten and going on websites promoting it in anyway or form is not going to help. Also alot of people say just leaves us to do what we please its our choice but do you stop and consider what it will do to your family and friends? Is being healthy to liove a good life with them not a priority over starving yourself?
I dont understand why people who dont have an ED come on here and to talk shit and belittle us. We are suffering enough, we dont need to be judged on top of that... trust me.
I have tried to ignore this site but after getting so much hate I have come back. had EDNOS and yoga was one thing that helped me in recovery, which is why I teach it. I did it to make me thin, originally, but when I realised that it wasn't right to use an ancient art to make yourself thin. I have been an instructor for a while now and have seen many people come to my yoga class and asked me "Will yoga make me thin?" I tell them that it isn't about weight loss, and more often than not , they never come back. I'm so sorry about my rant, and I realise I didn't put it in the right way. You make me sick meant it's triggering for me, due to my past. Just please, stop killing yourselves. Back when I had my ED, I thought that starving and fasting was taking me closer to happiness, but what it was really doing was taking me closer to death. So now you know. OK?
STOP MAKING EXCUSES. IF YOU KNOW ANOREXIA IS A DISEASE THEN YOU GO GET HELP, YOU DON'T COME ON WEBSITES LIKE THESE THAT ENCOURAGES THIS VILE BEHAVIOR. THIS IS SICK, THIS PERSON IS GIVING YOU STEPS ON HOW TO SLOWLY KILL YOURSELF BY STARVATION. WE'RE SPEAKING OUT BECAUSE THIS IS NOT OKAY. CHILDREN CAN EASILY COME ON THIS WEBSITE...THIS YOUNG GIRL THAT RUNS THIS WEBSITE IS EVEN ONLY JUST 16 YEARS OLD...AND HERE EVERYTHING IS PERFECTLY LAYED OUT FOR ANY OTHER CHILD TO SEE AND LEARN ON HOW TO STARVE THEMSELVES. THIS IS SICK AND THIS NEEDS TO STOP.
Listen you sacks of ignorant garbage, being anorexic isn't a choice! It is a disease of the mind because people like some of you who judge others based on appearance. My close friend is 530 pounds and has a boyfriend that loves her, and friends that care so much about her. I also have a friend who gives nearly all her lunch away everyday, and exercises all the time. She has exactly what the larger girl has, people make fun of both because of their appearances.If it was a choice people would want to be average size so they don't get talked bad about, but they don't get a choice in that decision. Their mind makes them see what's not really there, makes them see fat where it is healthy, they have a disease, not a bad choice. We have a disease.
we are not sick people, we are people who choose to perfect ourselves in our own ways. we don't have the same mindset as you assholes. our brains don't say "hey, here's this thing that makes us fat, now lets consume a bunch of that, but even it out by exercising." no. we choose to be beautiful by pushing away the thing that makes us ugly. those are beautiful women and an inspiration to us. you may push yourselves hard but we push harder.
Can I just ask the question already, I have read a lot of these comments and they piss me off. Personally I like this site. But the ones who are posting disrespectful bullshit, why are you on here then? Because if you find saying mean shit to people is helping them not starve themselves just makes them feel worse. And it may push people further. Which if you don't like what a lot of us are doing.... well simple as this. Too bad. If we find this inspiring, and losing weight the way we want to, and its helping us all to our goal. So why do you care, and why are you on these sites if you don't like the way we talk about losing weight. Yes, maybe it is a unhealthy, but eat the right foods such as eggs.... Protein. And very little calories. Drinking water all the time. Hydrating, 0 calories. Tons if fruits and vegetables have tons of protein and help with energy without all the calories. Yes we may consume very little calories a day, but we give out body what it needs without all the fast food fat filled and disgusting bullshit. Eat right and exercise. That's all I have to say.
^ agreed. And why come on here if your just gunna start talking rubbish? I mean, I know what I'm doing and that eventually it could become unhealthy, but I dunno, I just want to be pretty and slim. Is that what makes people sick?
if you have an ed stop encouraging others to be like you. no more excusses. ana can be overcome if you try and seek out help. the way to lose weight is not to stop eating but to eat in moderation and to work out in moderation. we all need to be more comfortable with who we are regaurdless of our physical appearance. it is what is on the inside that will truely counts. as we age out looks will fade but being a good person with a strong personality will always be beautiful.
I'm reading all this shit and just like why are ppl that don't have a ED or wanting a ED on here ? Like why did u even come on here ? It's not your life so I can do whatever the fuck I want with my life and u have no fucking say in it . And maybe some of u have good Intentions and mean well but some of yall just need to back the fuck up damn like this place helps ppl here or like it encourages ppl to be thiner and they don't need hate and if u don't like it well sorry just get the fuck out k
Dude, it is delayed suicide. we are depressed. and if we cant be skinny we would rather die. so we will either be skinnier, or die.
Just love yourself.
How do I start
This is sad...im sorry for you...
Finally a beautiful site...I am so grateful to you
it pisses me off when people just go on here to say were wrong like ok good for you if youre gonna stuff your fat ass just you dont gotta tell us to do it too. and i agree, this site is perfect.
it sucks seeing people getting targeted in a place that they find comforting. people are sick to call us sick. its just making everything worse and making you look like an asshole. and why do people without ED's even come on here?...
I agree. It's unbelievable what I've read on here... Why are some people so damn ignorant and narrow minded. Some people can't control it and people simply don't understand! I've had an ED for a few years, I've lost 88lbs and to be honest sites like these help me, they remind me that I'm not alone, this society helps each other, and about the thinspo, I absolutely adore it, and FYI I used to be absolutely miserable when I was 5 sizes bigger than what I am now, all this that they're hating on has definitely made me happier than what I used to be, and I didnt force myself into being pro-ana, I didn't have control. On another note, I had been working out and not been lazy, so these ignorant people need stop pointing fingers without knowing what some of us go through, if they disagree with something then they're obviously on the wrong website.
Telling someone "you are sorry for them" "You need help" is actually pushing someone away from getting help. It makes someone feel as if they are being judged, its not showing you truly care. What I am saying is... fuck off.
^ To Anonymous, FEB 5 2014 ^ You are right about not telling people that you are sorry for them et cetera, but if it comes to it, you have to tell it like it is. Everyone who is comparing themselves to these photos shouldn't be doing it - the girls in these photos could have SERIOUS EDs, so these pics are pushing people towards ana more than telling them you need help et cetera. I don't think you support the pro-ana movement, but seriously, don't tell people to f*ck off if they are only trying to help.
I wish I looked like all these girls in these photos
those girls are too thin and its unhealthy if that is not how your body is supposed to be. you cannot starve yourself into that body. it should not be a goal. just healthyness is general should be
Some people's bodies actually are naturally built thin like that, so don't say "it's not how your body should be" because you have no idea.
ill never be as skinny as these beauties... well no abc diet for me for a little gonna do fasting and only zero calorie drinks....
How beautiful, gorgeous, and sexy you are! You are a role model for us all. Thank you for these pictures, for they give us something all to strive to achieve! God bless you!
Okay that was silly, of course you are not these models. But you understand what I meant with the message. Carry on, strong woman!
Correction - a role model INSPIRES people. These pictures just drive people into the dark abyss of anorexia! Shut up and think about this - if YOU had bones pressing through your skin and constantly felt hunger, how would you like that? Would you be sexy, beautiful and gorgeous? NO! So now what do you think about these photos?
hey, models are now this way, haven't you looked at any models at all? You hardly see chunky models, or regular sized models anymore. They have perfect thin arms, there legs have the perfect thigh gap, and there BONES pop out just right. I believe bones are sexy. collar bones, cheek bones, hip bones. And what the fuck do you care what the photos are. Why the heck are you on here if you think its sick. so NOW, I think these photos are still fucking perfect.
Fuck off. If you think bones are sexy, you're yelling everyone who reads this that they are sexy, thus causing them to starve. And how the fuck is starving yourself and making yourself look like a living skeleton perfect? Also, models aren't perfect. Perfection isn't real. Accept what you are and embrace it.
I want that thigh gap... I want to be beautiful too! Thank you for this website, I am barely getting started but I WILL BE THIN.
I am anorexic toots. I have a big thigh gap. All that happens is my knees bang together all the time, I fall down a lot, and yes, my internal monsters still overpower my rational mind and I see myself as fat. Thigh gap - not beautiful, but a modern day form of torture. It will never be wide enough. You are beautiful right now. Something else is hurting you address that. Please... (26 years for me, don't start, please don't).
i want to be thin like these girls everyone here is sos strong i wish i was i need a ana buddy to stop me binge/purge as i feel strong not eating .......help me reach my ug
You are perfect the way you are. Don't binge and purge - exercise! Anorexia is just making you worse. Pull your life around! I'd contact Beat or Childline, because face it - ana is more trouble than it's worth.
Ill help you
Hi..i need a help to be thin..im little fat right now..how can i start it..i hate when people keep saying me fat..please..help me
This is horrendous. I hope pro-ana websites are banned.
If its so "horrendous",get out of this site , Bones are beautiful.
hey, at least we will be thin.
Shut the fuck up, you'll be ana not thin.
PLEASE EVERYONE STOP! everyone wants to be thin and you don't have to hae an ed I have an ed to everyone who says to stop eds you guys are so harsh the way to get a person to stop an ed is to be kind and gently help them through it you people are saying Shut up stupid idiot dumb ass Stop it Hate wont help it only makesit worse And to those with eds and me as wellThis life style doesn't get better and sit down and think are u even doing this for you or for our civilization do want is healthy get skinny but be HAPPY when doing so excersize and eat healthy foods and only eat bfast lunch and dinner don't starve don't cut don't purge I know how you feel I am in the same situation Every one is beautiful fat skinny I DONT CARE YOU ARE SSSSOOO FREAKIN BEAUTIFUL these girls think they is ugly just like you think so if u they is pretty someone thinks your pretty an d I'm one of those peops who thinks your beautiful cause you are
Me too! You don't need to be stick thin to be beautiful!
Your just jelpus because youre fat
They are not. It just makes you less beautiful. Everyone is perfect the way they are and exercise is much better than starving yourself. If “bony is beautiful" then exercise is unhealthy. Stop talking nonsense. This website should be taken down. Anorexia should be extinct - we don't need people promoting this serious problem.
I'm totally against ana and am SHOCKED by the content of this website. Here's the thing - focus in what you DO have - e.g.so this girl is thinner than me, but I have a gorgeous figure to be proud of; this girl has a prominent ribcage, but I have a full chest and strong abdomen. The girls in these photos (bar the one with the runner) look like they have serious EDs. If you think YOU need their figure, you are wrong. Whatever shape you are, you are perfect.A slogan often seen on pro ana websites is “if your body is your cage, ana can be your key to freedom!" What this should say is “If your body is your cage, ana will just add more bars and locks!" Think of the latter if you see this slogan.And to the owner of this blog: stop wrecking your life. If you do, you'll stop wrecking someone else's.
After reading your self written blog, I feel actually kinda bad for what I said. I think that you should, however, take down the thinspo page and the other shocking pages. Stop ruining your life, please! And best wishes for your son and his new family!
Hey guys,You know that hip bone thinspo with the tattoo? It said "Quod me nutrit me destruit."In Latin, this means "What nourishes me will destroy me." You may have different ideas, but to me, this means there are three things that this could relate to - drugs, alcohol and eating disorders.And to me, it's pretty clear what one she means.You may think ana or mia is helping you, nourishing you - WRONG. It's delayed suicide, people - and these people are committing it. You don't want to do that, do you? Then I'd recommend doing these things:CALL THIS NUMBER IF YOU ARE 18 AND OVER AND ARE BATTLING AN EATING DISORDER - 0845 634 1414 (OPEN MON-THURS FROM 1.30 TO 4.30 PM)CALL THIS NUMBER IF YOU ARE UNDER 25 AND FACING AN EATING DISORDER - 0845 634 7650
I doubt either of theese phone numbers will make me thin.
People dont look at this pictures, you are gorgeous boy or girl, eating disorders aren't something to incourage and over excercising is a form of self harm if you dont eat much. Your weight doesnt define your beauty, its whats inside (as cheesy as that sounds) and if people dont like you because you arent a size 0, which will never be the case then they are not worth your time. Being skinny wont make you happier you just cant see that right now, and if you are going on 'pro-ana or pro-mia' sites then you need to talk to someone because it could lead to you developing that illness. Which I can tell you is not fun, you wont be happy because you'll be in hospital, you wont be able to go outside wear bikini's/speedos or do what tyou want to do because you'll weaken your body. There is no point in over excercising or starving or purging because you wont get to enjoy your new weight. You will feel more depressed because you wont be able to eat food like everyone else, you wont be able to do certain activities like everyone else because you will be so fragile and weak. A girl in my school is severely anorexic, and she collapsed in school, the ambulance had to come in and help her, she cant go on school trips and gets drunk in school because she is so depressed. I dont want that for any of you, so please please please stop looking at these sites because I used to be just curious just looking at pro-ana sites, and now im on the way to the doctors because im not copying, I feel sick when I eat, I dance until I feel faint, I cry when I look in the mirror etc, and all because of looking at 'thinspos' who most of the time got that body healthily, without starving, they are airbrushed or have an eating disorder but are ill. You dont want to throw your life away, if you really want to be thin, set a goal of a healthier weight, and excercise and eat balance diets, but it wont happen instantly, you have to be patient, but it will be worth it. Because its medically proven if you starve then eat more, you gain weight quicker than having a healthy diet, so dont starve, dont purge and if you feel you cant help it, get help or talk to a friend, please just don't risk getting ill, you are all too precious - stay strong <3
I mean 'people wont not like you because you arent a size 0, no one would ever dislike people because they are super skinny' ^^^^^^^
Oh you think the fact is that people just appreciate skinny good looking girls not fat horrible looking people it's reality people only care about looks nobody will fall for your personality at first sight it's a FACT get it that is why we are here and me included we just want to get the perfect image Society made us do this
What is wrong with wanting to be beautiful? People do things that are risky for their health all the time, but everyone wants to dis on extreme dieting because of how unsafe it is. What about tattoos or piercings or people who do drugs. Yes, eds are dangerous but by saying it here doesn't mean a whole lot. I feel like most of the people that come here don't have an eating disorder, but just want some motivation to loose some extra pounds, and there is nothing wrong with that. I believe there should be more support for people who struggle with this instead of all the trash talking that is going on.
Thank you for a wonderful site..... finally I have found something that supports me being ana... im proud to be an ana girl and i strive for perfectionstay strong <3
You are not making yourself perfect. You are committing suicide.
No its not and if u don't believe this then don't come on here and don't comment all that dose is make people like us fell worse!
I am researching. Shut up because it is the truth!
Well if you are researching then you should know enough by now to understand that being harsh and an ass is no way to help and you just make it worse and you don't need to comment to research anyway take your stupid opinions where they are wanted coz they sure aren't welcome here
I'm still on the fence about ed's, I've been binging and purging for a year and a half now and I successfully went from 198 to 113. I'm still trying to lose those 13 pounds but people are telling me I look like a stick and that I have the body of a 13 tear old boy now. But I think if i lost those 13 pounds I'd be the perfect weight. So thank you for having a site that shows skinny girls are pretty too.
Ya'll need Jesus or some fucking counselling. This is not healthy.
Yeah, I agree!!
Hello there, ana girl.First off, I am so proud of you because you finally have opened the envelope which held my letter. I have sent you this message many times before, but you never opened it. Don't worry! I'm not cross with you. You didn't have the strength or power to. And do you know why? Because Ana and Mia took away your strength and power. They have made you rip my letter into many pieces many times before. This is your chance to read it!Ana and Mia are bossy and manipulative and make you do things their way. Before you met these murderous sisters, you did not fast or purge. Ana and Mia made you purge and fast and diet. I will not dictate what you do - I can help you in many different ways - YOU can choose which one! I will not distort the mirror, or make the scales and food your enemy. I will not tell you that you are useless or worthless and fat. I will not push you down, I will support you. I will not make you hungry or sick, or take your health or self control. I will not do what Ana and Mia did. You thought Ana and Mia were good friends to you - they weren't. They were bullies of the worst kind. I am a true friend - I promise you!I have many helpers on earth, like Beat, but you need me too! And for me help you, you will not have to starve yourself - all you have to do is have willpower. We will work together, and we shall chase Ana and Mia away for good! Now you know about me, this is your chance to let me into your life. Many girls have blocked me out, but you, I hope, are wise enough to let me help you.Our journey together will be hard - there's no doubt about that - but it will be one of the best journeys of your life.Yours truly,Recovery.
I AM NOT A SCAM ARTIST. THIS IS MY OWN WORK AND I SAT AND TYPED THIS OUT FOR YOU. DO NOT CLAIM IT AS YOUR OWN WORK.
Fat people somtimes hate on the skinny people just another case of hatin dont matter anorexic or exercise anorexic is easier
Ana also makes it easier to die.
I had an eating disorder in adolescence . I was always sensual, chubby material , and I loved the sweets . I was not fat for neighbors and friends , but for the parents and family I was. I remembered every criticism on my apperance throught whole my childhood . My parents told me , " You'll be as thick as your grandmother , they counted every bit , and constantly tried to steer me to not eat as much as I want .My friend was skinny and I 've always wanted to be like her .Like a lot of other kids , I was very picky for food , I eat just sweets , fruit , seeds , snacks , pizza , yogurt , sandwiches... I did not like vegetables .At 13 , I began to study the calories , food , exercise every evening and every morning . I had a goal to become thin to prove to everyone that I can be skinny .I ate a couple of apples a day , yoghurts and cereals .In e two years I came to 45kg at height of 1.72 m . Before that I had 58kg .My whole universe was just that.( kilos )After I reached the stage that everyone keep telling me how skinny I was; teachers , friends , my parents also notices the problem.They started to make me eat , but I just did not have the appetite .The thing with anorexia is just that, generally begins with complexes, continues with obsessive counting of every bite, setting the rules, knowledge of calories of each meal, self-control, obsessive exercise. But very quickly and very uncontrolled develops, the stomach is reduced, you lost appetite and desire for food.Basically anorexia becomes a problem slowly. And it's getting bigger and bigger problem. We all have the internet and we can all see pictures of anorexia in its most severe form. Form which ends in hospital infusion, the form in which the doctors struggling for life. I do not want anyone to end their lives because of a lack of understanding of the environment, because of the complexes, and that is why I write.Anorexia is a mental disorder primarily and often develops along with obsessive compulsive disorder. But that does not mean that we are born with this disorder, it is usually developed under the influence of the environment, in response to cruelty and superficiality people. A child of 14 years just can not always know what is best for her. Because it's not strong enough mentally. It is still very vulnerable.Getting back to my story. After my parents realized that I have a problem that they started to attach greater importance and force me to eat. Literally, I was tied to a chair. After a while, my obsession stopped. To be honest, I started smoking marijuana. Marijuana brings back my appetite very soon. After a while I came back to my normal weight. Normal, because 58 kg at 1,72 m really fit ME the best. I'm 28 years old, and now I try to eat healthy. I eat according to my blood group (many vegetables, grains, white meat, fish, nuts) practicing Pilates. I feel great. I think first of all think children need to work on their psychological health, strengthen, not to be dependent on the opinions of others and to think about their welfare. To introduce your spirit, and to love your spirit, because only then your body will look the best that can. ( Sorry about my English, it is not my language )Wish you all the best in your life. You are all beautifull people <3
Really want to get to 3st
What?!! You idiot! I hope to god that was an April Fool's!
I get where the replier above me is coming from. My lil sister is that weight and she is in Year 2.
Theses girl are beautiful
No they are not. They are emaciated, hungry girls who pushed themselves too far with an ED and are now probably in recovery. You are beautiful. They are thin. There is a hell of a difference between beautiful and thin.
So I see things like this all around the web and it really makes me want to change the way I eat because I'm super unhealthy and I think that if I stopped being such a dumbarse, maybe I could get to be beautiful instead of being a fat blob. I just really need someone to help me... I don't want to be the only one I guess
I feel your pain. I need help losing weight too. I gained 17 pounds since the end of January this year and I do feel fat. I weigh 140 now and its just terrible. You are not the only one. You are never alone
I just hope that one day ALL of you can be happy with your bodies. Please, to all of you who do want to lose weight and do want to be happy with your bodies, just try to at least have fruits and vegetables in your diets. It is totally okay to want to have goals for your bodies and be healthy. But some of you have to remember that not everyone is built the same. And some of these pictures aren't realistic for everyone. Life is too short... Much too short... A lot of you may say that I don't understand and that I've never struggled with the fear of being fat. In some ways this may be true. I never became anorexic but many times I wondered what it would be like...wondered what would happen if I just stoppped eating. How I would look and feel afterwards. What people would say and react. And in that short vision, I saw people proud of me... people complimenting me and approving of my weight loss. But as my imagination progressed people started to become frightened and worried. Then I realized, if I were to do that to myself would it be like suicide? Would someone out there in this crazy life actually care about me?...I started to realize that I have friends and family whose lives would simply stop if I harmed myself in the manner that I considered. Although it may be easier for me to just skip that one meal or maybe the next several would I be as happy as I hoped at the start? I've decided that in fact I wouldn't. How can I be happy knowing that the people that care about me most are suffering because of my stubbornness? All that I wish to convey to those who actually take the time to read this post is that there are other ways to getting to your weightloss goal that don't involve starving yourself and harming your bodies into major illness. Please just look into these other outlets. You won't regret it. I hope this helps at least one person see that small flame of beauty inside themselves. Love> everything :) Peace and Harmony to all of you.
Wow. Exactly this.
I guess what I don't get is how someone can be considered "beautiful" based on solely on their physical attributes. Beauty is more than just looks or "attractiveness".
Some people go under the knife to be become beautiful.....How is this any different?Two hundred years ago we would most likely all be slaving in a back field for food....Now we have so much excess, we avoid it..Just a thought.
I am truly surprised that there are sites such as this one that are pro-anorexia. I understand that it is a disease, and once one falls prey to it, it is very difficult to become free. However, this desire for the thigh gap, jutting hip bones, and microscopic waists are unhealthy. They can not be attained by natural means. The thin beautiful models you see in magazines and advertisements do not actually look like that. Many do not know that these models have been Photo shopped to look extremely thin. This is just one ideal promoted by the media. Every one is beautiful just the way you are. It's understandable to want to be thin, but you should be a healthy thin not anorexic thin. Don't fall prey to these unrealistic thin standards of beauty, create a new standard. You can be thin, beautiful and healthy through exercise, and healthy eating. Beauty comes from within. No one can make you feel less than without your consent. Life is too short to waste it away through starvation, especially when there are thousands of people around the world dying from starvation because they do not have access to food. These people are wishing they could eat something while you are forcing yourself to not eat in order to be impossibly thin. Ana is not a way of life, not a way of being. Ana is a disease. You are stronger than that!
Thank you!! Everything I have tried to say!
Dull, dull, dull...grow up, face your demons, eat some food, have some fun. Your life will be incredibly boring and short unless you find another way of being. Might be an idea to spend some time with real people, who are experienced real suffering and real joy, rather than drooling over pictures of imaginary emaciated friends. I'd be really interested to know about the last time you felt good, enjoyed or experienced something other than your obsession? Your life sounds monotonous to the point of being unbearable. I hope one day you'll hold onto a little thread of something new and and exciting and follow it. I'm sure you have lovely qualities, they just need to be nourished. I wish you luck one way or the other.
Wish I could look like that
Oh! You wish you could be a skeleton?
Wanna hear something funny? Of course you do. My mum said that it was rumored back then that girls with the thigh gap(they didn't have a word for that) had it because they had too much sex. Lol.
Lol! Tell that to the admin!
These girls are far too self obsessed to enjoy sex
Sex is not life dipshit.
to all the ppl coming on this site calling us crazy or weak or watever the hell u guys r saying:i dont think u guys no how hard it is forus, every day we look in the mirror and see the most imperfect person in the world. all were trying to do is change that, so yea, were not doing it in the most healthiest way but its the way the voice inside our head is telling us to do. everytime we eat we feel like failures, and everytime we go outside were parnoid ppl r thinking were fat and ugly and disgusting, im not speaking for all the ppl with ED's but i no that there r ppl who feel the same way i do, and thats the only thing that keeps me going is knowing im not alone, so wen u guys come on the site and call us crazy or watever u just become another voice inside our heads..
I never said u were crazy or weak. I also never agreed with the person above you. Obviously I know that isn't true because a friend of mine's mom was or is anorexic and she has about 5 kids. Oh and yes I do know how hard it is. Not everyone needs to have an ED to understand. I sometimes want to commit suicide but I convince myself everyday that it will hurt too much. Second of all, I came on this site looking for tips to be anorexic. I notice that the people who are always skinny ppl or anorexics(in secret but it is somewhat noticed) are always being more liked. I know someone who was always pretty and funny and it only got noticed until now. Now she is called, "the cutest girl in the world". She was never fat, but she was never a size super extra small either. Yeah, you want to call this jealousy? So what? I am so jealous of her I could punch myself. I'm not sure if I'm crazy or not but I know one thing, you will never know how that person behind the computer screen feels. Plus, I actually want the thigh gap for your information but I just don't think it is something necessary to make someone beautiful. I just thought it was a funny joke and it is.....at least to me. I did not mean to offend anyone.
I'm 245lbs and I hate how I look. I want to be thin
then work on it do not be lazy.and how come all this so called pro ana girls are so fat.
Fuck off. You'll give them Ana and they'll die.
Um, I have a suggestion to all of those talking shit about the people that are ana. Leave them the fuck alone. I don't have an eating disorder, just came on here for research for a paper for my Behavioral Science class, but really, to those claiming they're trying to "help"... you aren't a psychologist or psychiatrist, and you don't know these people personally. Talking shit could make them worse, not better, you dumbshit. If you want to help, volunteer at a clinic or something. Leave these people alone.
Good grief, this is the least helpful site I have seen. Grow up, owner of the site. This isn't a little game for you to play at. I am all for not being alone in our illness but your methods are questionable at best. Where on earth did you do your research? You are going to get someone killed, not the thinness we are craving. I want to be beautiful and strong in spirit, not dead.
Ima boy anorexia I love this site so much <3
So many people are giving negative feedback, but I think that if you really want to do something, then it's your life, go do it! I love your thinspo (???right word???)!
I am in love with this site, fuck off haters
I have seen much thinner anorexics than the girls on this site. Unfortunately, I'll never see them again, they are dead. From starvation brought on by distorted body image shared by everyone posting pictures on this site. Wake up, get treatment before you too become a statistic.
I totally agree with this statement, this site is so destructive and I pray that the girls that think that this is the ideal gets the proper help they need. From a psychological aspect this such a negative and very destructive thing for young girls to experience. We have to accept our own bodies and be comfortable in our own skin...
people that are anorexic are strong and chose this lifestyle. If the stupid haters can't think of anything nice to say then they can fuck off.
Anorexia isn't a choice love. It's a disorder. If you're 'choosing' it, then choose not to do it. Because it isn't fun, it isn't cool. It's pretty horrific really, when all is said and done. I'm not being a 'hater' because I've been doing this now for a decade. But not through choice. If you choose to do this, you're a fucking moron.
Its a lifestyle ! this is just not something you get over .. its helping me to be obedient with my weight ! if your not thin , your not attractive in everyone eyes im a fat pig !
These girls in the picture are not all anorexics. If you want to lose weight do it the healthy way. Keep your diet full of a variety of food and make sure you are taking in the recommended calories from a factual website. Starving yourself will only cause terrible health problems from you. Beauty comes from within. Make yourself happy and don't use these get thin quick scams. They will only hurt you. If you are reading these "rules" on this website and are seriously considering them. Please please please seek help elsewhere. Somewhere who can help you achieve your goals in a healthy way. People love you and the last place they want to see you is in a hospital with your life at risk. Please reconsider doing anything this website says! Let someone who has years of experience in health help you. Body size isn't everything. You should look up testimonials from some recovered anorexics and see what they went through when they were in your shoes. Don't destroy your body. :( If you need help there are so many people out there willing to help. Just put as much trust into these words as you are putting in this website. You are beautiful! Please don't be fool by these false ideas of weight success.
My first night on a fast after looking at thinspo. I can't wait to be skinny
im 131.0 pounds and 5'11 i need to get to 120. im eating to much comfort food. HELP!!!~ANONYMOUS
Drink more water and try to stay away from all of your cravings. Get anything with a lot of carbs, cals, and fat out of the house. Make sure all of the sugary things are out. This will reduce your comfort foods binging. Another little trick is to only have just enough money for the things that you have written down on a grocery list. That way you cannot even afford to buy more comfort food at the store.
I want to be that thin and beauitful, and i've been trying to stay away from food. To me its the enemy. I will be doing so good, then its like i go on a binge and then i feel like a total failure. I sometimes feel like i need support or people help me keep my mind off of it. This is truely thinspirtation. Maybe I can find someone who will push me and help me get the control of not eating.
omg i feel the same way we talk about food and stuff in school and thats all i say food is an enemy and i wish it wasnt addictive i no this is nothing 2 do with ur comment but im new here and just trying 2 make friends aha
Scrolling through all I see is negativity, either from pro anas ragging on themselves, or the anti anas ragging on the pros. How about instead of perpetuating hate to ourselves and others, we send love and maybe it will stop the disease of anorexia.
So im 189 pound and im on 4'9 and i try and try to get Skinner but i still seem to get fatter what do i do my goal is to be 150 pounds
To every single one of the disgusting people hating on others just because they starve themselves? Judging them, all it shows is how immature & selfish you really are, and to the other people telling us to 'stop starving! Just eat healthy and exercise! It's easy!' Well it really isn't. People just can't snap out of Anorexia & we can't just choose recovery because a lot of people have a fear of gaining weight. Honestly you haters shouldn't even be on this fucking site nor making judgemental comments unless you are put it our shoes, ugh rant over
my name is charlotte and omg the girls on these pics are so fit and inspirational i mean i bet none of youse are even fat im a size 10 i have three rolls of fat on my belly and can do the mexican wave my goal is size 6 and has been for a while im 15 ther is only 1 slight problem getting in the way of me stopping eating and that is because i smoke weed i need help help me become ana i want to b ana
Please visit my pro ana website!http://anaisabeauty.weebly.com
no one should be starving themselves if you really have a weight problem and you need to lose weight get your doctor to help you to have a healthy diet which includes eating healthily which means a suitable amount of food and exercising but not excessevily. but really girls need to stop this thing if you're thin than you dont need a diet! great dieting isnt starving yourself by doing that you could kill yourself or cause permanent damage.
I just want to be thin and skinny , but I can`t say NO to chocolate , cakes and sweets , what should I do to stop this ,because after everytime I eat sweet things I feel like I fail
I just wish I was skinny.
If people don't like these sites get of them I am 12 years old and weighs as much as a man you know if you saw a big girl you say it'll get away from me stop saying everyone is beautiful cause you know it's a lie don't like my comments well I don't really care
If you don't like this site then don't read it the site is to help you I'm getting really skinny and feel great thinsporation helps doesn't destroy ps thank you for helping me on my journey
All I want is to be skinny I need to lose 100 pounds any massive weight loss tips Ive already started to fast and have begun to do squats crunches planks by doubling 50 each day
Hey all I can say is I foe pro anna as when I am stressed I dont eat! yep its great diet but I am retired professional in aport and it just made my heart weak! I go up and down with my weight and I know the results r great but starving is killing your organs! Anyway myself I dont have the best of the diet But I can assure u its not healthy. Up to u what u choose to do! All I can see now id heart problems so if u anna live skinny short life do it but not long heathy life! U can collapse any minute?
Hello All, Im looking on this site to try to understand EDs and what its like for the people who live with them. Whilst Im aware of the health complications connected with EDs Im not here to judge or critisize. I do the complete opposite and over eat, and not just a little greedy but really over eat....constantly. I find some of these posts offensive, why do people go on pro ana sites just to bully and humiliate people who live with this condition. Its not helpful or kind. To be honest it shows little empathy or caring towards fellow man when really what we need to be doing is allowing people to make decisions for themselves. People need to know there is help IF they want it and when they are ready. That there are people who care and wont judge not hurtful stigmatising people. To all who sufferes with any illness or if you dont see it as an illness i wish you good health and a happy future whatever path it maybe. x
There are lots of people on this website, I can tell. .There's the person that came on here, to tell everyone that them going on this website makes them a pathetic loser . There's the person that comes on this site to actually help, they sympathize and try to understand . There's the person who used to be an ana addict, but recovered and is offering their support, because they know. There's the ana addict no.1, they don't want anyone else to ever be on this website, they don't want anyone else to suffer like they are . There's the ana addict no.2, they do want other people to lose weight fast and furious, I mean 'why do you want to be so fat?' . Then there's no.3, these people are feeling so guilty, feeling so ill, but can't stop Please, this is a message to all the people who have ever posted anything along the lines of ' Everyone on this website is pathetic' or ' Everyone get OFF THIS WEBSITE, IT MIGHT KILL YOU OR RUIN YOUR LIFE' do you think it helps? For every person who see the word 'pathetic' or 'ruin your life' and thinks, yeah, that's actually pretty dangerous, I'll get of this n ow, there's someone else, who associates 'pathetic' 'ruin your life' or anything negative, with being fat. Please, I urge you towards positive encouragement not negative.
I wish to be like this someday. I'm 140lbs. Please help me
I wanna look like that so bad! HELP!
Nothing wrong with being thin. Nothing wrong with dieting, losing weight, working out, etc. BUT...if you start losing hair, that's not beautiful. If your teeth start to fall out, also not beautiful. Your body eating its own heart to stay alive, not cool. And not normal to quit having your periods, unless you are menopausal or pregnant. It's not about thin, it's about control.
I would rather have a figure, than look like a little girl. thigh gaps looks gross, i would rather have a nice fat ass. haha, and a waist not no little boy body....
good for you..I on the other hand don't want roles, and huge love handles, and giant thighs we all have our own version of a perfect body.
I'm a 14 year old who weighs 53kg and is 64cm tall, my goal is to be 40kg by my birthday ( November). Last year I managed to get down to 45kg on Christmas and my original weight was 58kg. Since then I've been just eating practically everything I see and then after I finish I feel like a total failure. I need some help to reach my goal so that I can have a good bikini body for summer and fit into a size 6
Most of these pictures are beautiful...but there are some of them that are completely wrong!! Admit it people, we want to be beautifully thin, not skeleton thin...anyway, thanks for all the tips and the inspiration. I discovered I might have a bulimic problem lately and I really wish to stop eating all those calories (I have periods of one week fasting and then two days of extremely high calories). I really don't know who to tell and if I can tell anyone without them looking at me with pity...so thank you for existing and listening to us. I hope we all got the bodies of our dreams and not get really unhealthy on the way (but I am willing to make some sacrifices there).
god I hate being this fat... every time i look at myself I feel like i'm about to throw up... this sight has helped me a lot... but i also know that I wish I had never had an ED because now it's controlling me and I've lost control... I need the control back
woah ; the girls in the photos have gorgeous bodies ! I really want a flat tummy :( I envy you for being anorexic and having that much will power. I wish I could have a fraction of your patience and will to reach my dream weight. (I'm 159 cm and weigh 56.5 kg . my goal weight is 48 kg.)
I hope u reach ur goal!!
I feel like the fattest person on earth!!! Last summer I lost 10 pounds my parents are always at work, me always home alone I would only eat 1 meal a day! But after school starts I got back to my eating habits eating 2-3 meals a day!! I'm 5"5 114 pounds... Goal is 110
How thin do people class being thin? In fact, I want everyone to tell me how much they think a 12 year old should weigh- there is no right or wrong answer- everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
No matter what you tell them, they'll not change. They have to WANT to change. Let them hit rock bottom, once someone tells them "your dying", then will they either continue or change for the better. All you can do is really stir them in the right direction. And support them, they have to want to change. You guys can nag all you want, they know what will happen. They just are denying it or haven't even gone far yet into this. Let them learn. You can only do so much..
This comment is for both ED's and 'normal' people. I am a compulsive binge eater, a disorder that isn't even recognized by the scientific society. I've been stuck all my life with an unrecognizable disease which started because I felt unrecognized. Stop judging and bad mouthing each other. Recognize each other. This debate is no different from people judging each other based on religion or ethnicity. This addiction is no different from alcoholism or drug abuse. Eating disorders are often also triggered by trauma. When my daughter died, people told me to 'just get over it'. Trauma is not something you 'just get over'. You cannot tell me that even the 'normal' people commenting on these posts do not have issues or emotions that they find hard to deal with. Having that one glass of wine after a tough day, or that one bar of chocolate when you're feeling down - both actions could be the first step toward alcoholism or an eating disorder depending on you're situation or background. People who support ana chat on sites like these to find support and understanding because 'normal' people (not intended as an insult) stay away from sites like these, not wanting to admit that it scares them how close they or someone they know might be to suffering like this. Being a musician I've suffered the same ridicule as have been dished out on this site, making me - in the eyes of society - less than the perfect standard of acceptance. Please, everyone, don't judge each other, don't fight with each other. There are many ways you can help one another that doesn't have to lead to comments calling each other names. If you don't understand eating disorders, read about it, learn about it. If you have an eating disorder - I know it's hard, but you don't have to respond to comments. Talking from experience, if you are strong enough to ignore food/eating, then surely you have the strength to ignore ignorance. If you're mad at me for making these statements, or support me therein, I ask that you not comment on this post. I have been on both sides of the proverbial fence, neither side is right and neither side is wrong. Please just be considerate towards each other.
Hey guys, my name is anetreya peters I'm a anorexic I'm only twelve and love myself ☺
It makes me so upset seeing beautiful girls feel like they have to be skinny in order to be attractive. No. Every single person on this Earth is special and perfect and no one can tell you otherwise. Having an eating disorder myself in the past what I can tell you is its horrible, and it takes over your life. You feel weak and lifeless and spend years trying to put the weight back on. Please don't even try it. I understand that because I am not pro ana I am not accepted onto this site but whoever thinks it is okay to tell someone that they should ruin their lives and their health I feel really unhappy for. If I can change one girls mind then I would be happy, all I want is to stop people from feeling like they have to be skinny in order to be attractive. If you feel that your alone, you are never alone. There is always people who care for you, I care for you. You never have to battle these feelings alone and we can get through this together. Whether this post gets read or taken down, at least I tried, to try and stop this 'proana' epidemic from spreading. I hate the word fat, no one is fat. Fat is a substance that keeps us warm and keeps us safe from danger it isn't a measure of how attractive you are. The message that should be sent is that whether you are 7stone or 20stone YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and no one can ever tell you otherwise. Keep smiling and keep your head held high and when you walk out the house in the morning you tell people that you are who you are and no one can change that. You don't care what size you are because you are you and that will never change. You only have one life, and if you were on your death bed, regretting spending years trying to be the 'perfect ideal' that's impossible because everyone definition of perfect is different, then you have taken the wrong path
Awful, especially for people who don't naturally have that body type and beat themselves up over it. It's OK to be thin, but you shouldn't strive for your skeleton to be busting through your skin :\
I wish this wasn't so glamorized... Y'all don't realize how serious anorexia can get--it makes people worry more than praise you...
Ladies, it's one thing to want to be thinner, but don't torture yourselves to look like dry bacon. Don't try to shame yourself into looking like an emaciated cat. Contrary to popular belief, it ain't cute.You don't have to starve to be thin-- find creative ways to eat healthy and exercise. That makes losing weight FUN and SAFE instead of torturing yourself for a lifetime.
Guys, I had EDNOS.The thing is, it manipulates you, forces you to be something you are not.It's a psychological disorder. I understand why people argue over these sites, but I have advice.Every time you see a thinspo, think of something you have that the girl in the pic doesn't.When someone tells you that you're fat or if the "anorexic voice" is telling you that, block it out. Even say out loud your reply! It sounds mad, but it helps.Lastly, check the website for B-Eat and call. I finally did it when I was 16, and now I have graduated university in America with a first honours degree. Lastly, report this pro ana website. Please. Do it for future generations.I stumbled upon one by accident and for 5 years, I got stuck in the living hell of an eating disorder.
if you honestly believe these girls got to the wight they're by exercise your seriously hella dumb. there is not definition or muscle that pure Ana strength.
I came to this site looking for support and guidance and all I find, at every single corner of this website, is arguing! We know we're sick fucks! We're sick fucks looking for others like us. It doesn't matter what we are or who we've become, we go to sites similar to this for a sense of belonging, of togetherness... a place where we can be open and honest in a world filled with sneaking, hiding and lies. Sadly, this site isn't looking very promising.
I think you should look for a site that provides guidance on how to get off the path to being anorexic. There's arguing because it's just not an OK thing to do...
Hey everyone. My name is Katie and I'm doing a paper on eating disorders for my English 101 class. I would really like to interview someone who knows first hand all about ana. You can remain completely anonymous, I won't put your name anywhere on the paper. If you're interested at all just reply to this comment and ill give you my information, preferably email but its really however you would prefer. Thank you so much, in advance
hi i can help you out
ugh i am beyond jealous of all those girls in the pictures they are all so perfect. i hate everything about my body. i hate what i see when i look i mirror. i would kill to have a body like theirs...
How can you hate yourself this much? How can we have so much self-hatred?
I am actually diagnosed with anorexia and getting help. I´ve realised i only wanted to lose weight to be different and forget about all the bad things i did in the past. But it didn´t get me anywhere, just stuck me into endless psychiatrist appointments, passing out, hospital trips and making the ones i love cry. Nothing changed, I´m still the same person i was, but i´m actually worse than that, the not-eating make everything so much worse. And yeah, i was looking for pro-ana sites thinking about a relapse, but planning it this way actually makes this more evil. I lost friends from this disease, my grades dropped, i got yelled at, i cried and cried, i became depressed, and it never made me happy. But as i´m sick, it gives me the fake sensation of doing things good, and i always want that feeling back. I don´t think it was ever a weightloss solution, i just wanted to isolate myself and numb myself from who i was, then feel happy and coming out to the world again, thinner, prettier, more confident, honest, but i became a liar, an asshole, a monster who pushes every feeling from itself. And yeah, depression made me numb myself with drugs, alcohol abuse and self harm. Evil.
Mmmm mah booty itch
Isn't it funny that when we see animals with ribcages, hip bones, and spines visible we call it abuse, but we view it as "beautiful" and something to "aspire to" in women. You know what, it's not funny, it's disgusting.
Whoever actually believes that eating 300 calories a day will make you look this way is delusional. There is no such thing as a quick healthy fix to losing weight. Its simple: eat healthy (fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein) and exercise. The average person needs to consume 1300 calories a day just so essential parts can function properly (e.g. brain, kidneys, digestive system). The more muscle you have on your body the faster your metabolism is! So yes if you lift weights, eat properly (HEALTHY), and include cardio into your workout regime your body will burn calories not only during your workout but after when you're doing nothing. The more protein you consume in your diet, the more fat loss you will have in your body. Skin and bones are nothing to strive for. For those of you who do have an eating disorder, I sympathize for you. For the other girls on here (especially the young ones) there are healthy and extremely effective other ways to reach your goals and I am more than willing to help you. If anyone would like to ask me any questions or just talk, feel free to email me email@example.com
I love all this. I need to lose weight. I'm 5' 1'' 105...so FAT!! My goal weight is 80..or under. I want a thigh gap and my hip bones to show like that and more of my ribs and collar bone to show.
im trying hard....this helps me keep up...I WANT TO BE SKINNY!!!!
I think that some of these pictures are beautiful, some of them look a little bit scary, but all I can say is this: Its your body so do what you want. Im overweight for my height and I want to lose at least 5 lbs by the end of December, so dont hate me... ��
Also people that really want to lose weight: Go ahead, Im with you. People that are just posting rude comments just to post rude comments: You dont know these peoples struggles, so shush... :-(
Fyi people you're not in control of other people's bodies, so when they have a goal and you shoot them down with your words, they stop trying, and set themselves back. So just shush